11 Lesbian-Friendly Sex Toy Options for Partner or Solo Play

Whether you identify as lesbian, queer, non-binary, bisexual, or literally anything else, welcome to the land of sex toys specific for pleasuring you, your vulva, and your vagina.

If you want to play solo (what better way to get to know your body?) or share the experience with a partner, whatever (or whoever) you feel like doing, there are so many amazing sex toys that can help you get in touch with your pleasure.

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From rumbly finger vibes to vibrating double-ended dildos, you’ve got a bunch of products to choose from. Let’s explore some of ’em below:

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From rumbly finger vibes to vibrating double-ended dildos, you’ve got a bunch of products to choose from. Let’s explore some of ’em below:

1. Young Ma Strapon Set

Yeah, everyone else needs to step their merch game up because Young M.A.’s Play NYCe Strap On set has everything you need to explore strap-on penetration and comes highly recommended from Megan Stubbs, sexologist. The kit includes a vac-u-lock system allowing you to easily swap out different dildos. There’s also a harness included, lubricant, three dildos, toy cleaner, and way more. Stubbs calls the curated collection really well thought out and adds that it’s a great starter set to add to your sex toy collection.

2. Soraya Wave Rabbit

Rabbit vibes are great because they stimulate your clitoris and your internal hot spots at the same time. Casey Tanner, certified sex therapist and an expert for Lelo, identifies as queer and notes that the “come hither” aspect of the Soraya Wave makes this toy unlike any other. “Lesbians are often multitasking between internal and external stimulation, forced to choose between one or the other or foregoing face-to-face connection in order to do both,” Tanner says. “Because this toy multitasks for you, your other hand is also freed up to caress other erogenous zones such as your partner’s breasts, hips, or back,” Tanner adds. This toy is also flexible (most Rabbits aren’t), which makes it prime for giving you and a partner the perfect fit so you can use the toy and still have lots of skin-to-skin contact and touching.

3. RockHer

Wet For Her is a lesbian and queer-focused sex toy shop that was started with an emphasis on non-phallic sex toys. The RockHer was designed with scissoring in mind by their CEO and has ten modes, a wireless remote control, and is USB rechargeable. This vibe can be worn internally as it has parts that stimulate your clitoris and your internal hot spots. This splash-proof toy also runs for up to an hour, which is pretty impressive.

4. Dame Fin Finger Vibe

​“The Fin is an amazing external vibrator that is discreet, doesn’t get in the way, and—get this—can actually turn your fingers into the vibrator itself,” says sex educator Lisa Finn, brand manager at Babeland, who identifies as queer.

“You can wear the Fin at a higher setting toward the back of your fingers and let the motor travel down to your fingertips so you can touch your partner directly and still add the sensation of vibration. For those who want more direct stimulation, the Fin has two sides: a broader flat edge and then a thin tip for more pin-point vibration.”

Buy Here Dame Finger Vibe, $85, babeland.com

5. Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness

“It’s not to say that all couples with vulvas enjoy penetrative play, but for those who do, having a solid strap-on set, which should include a harness and dildo, is essential to a complete toy box,” says Finn. Into it? Start with the functional harness, like the Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness, and pair it with either a realistic dildo (like the Shilo) or a nonrealistic vibrating dildo (like the Riley).

Buy Here Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness, $115, babeland.com

6. Lelo Smart Wand

Lelo’s rechargeable wand vibrator is *super* quiet—aka ideal if you have roomies—and when it’s vibing, it comes with a “clitoral flutter” attachment so you can get alllll the clit stimulation.

Buy Now Smart Wand, $199, Lelo.com

7. We-Vibe Melt

Clit suction? Check. Smartphone connection for remote-control fun? Check. Use the toy on yourself or give it to your partner and let the other person control the sensation through the app on their phone. It’s really that easy, folks.

Buy Here We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator, $150, lovehoney.com

8. Desire Remote Control Panty Vibrator

Have you ever been out to dinner and thought to yourself, Wow, it would be really hot it if my partner could magically stimulate me from under the table without anyone knowing? Welp, dreams do come true: Wear these panties, slip the vibrator into them, and hand off the control to your partner…then go out in public and enjoy your naughty little secret.

Buy Here Lovehoney Desire Panty Vibrator, $100, lovehoney.com

9. LoveHoney “All You Need” Bondage Kit

The product name literally speaks for itself. This 20-piece kit has everything you need to live out your first-time bondage dreams, including a collar, nipple clamps, butt plug, wrist and ankle cuffs, and more.

Buy Here Lovehoney Bondage Kit, $170, lovehoney.com

10. Basics Double-Ended Dildo

This double-ended dildo with 12 inches and two heads will make playtime for you and your partner a joined effort…or it’ll just please TF out of you if you’re more interested in keeping it all to yourself.

Buy Here Lovehoney Basics Dildo, $23, lovehoney.com

11. Sliquid Water-Based Lubricant

Obvi you can’t forget the lube—it not only ups your chances of an O, but it just makes everything that much better. Increase the wetness and the pleasure with Sliquid’s OG H2O water-based lube. Use it in combination with any of the above toys… or your fingers… or something else of your choosing.

Buy Here Sliquid Water-Based Lube, $13, babeland.com

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