22 Sex Gifts Perfect to Give Your Partner (or Yourself), No Occasion Needed

Gifting someone a sex toy or sexy gift can be an easy way to make sure your gift stands out from the rest for a memorable experience. Regardless of if you’re gifting for a partner or a friend (whom you’re comfortably on that level with and won’t make uncomfy), sexy gifts are great because they’re items often seen as splurge-worthy that the giftee might not normally take the time to buy for themselves.

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No matter your price point, you want to ensure the gift is memorable, special, and most importantly, something that won’t wind up under their bed collecting dust in two months. Luckily for you, we’re here to help.

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When buying a gift for a romantic or sexual partner, sexy gifts are a truly clutch main event-gift or even as a smaller, side-gift or stocking stuffer. What’s the one thing your partner won’t mind more of? Sex with you of course!

And when it comes to gifting to friends, please, please, please, make sure you’re definitely on that level, and that your well-intended gift isn’t going to have the opposite effect and make them uncomfy. We all have friends that are by nature more open than others, and as long as you’re 1000% positive this is An Okay Thing For You to Gift, why not? Especially if they’ve expressed how they want to get into sex toys but are too shy themselves to do a deep dive of research on the topic or are overwhelmed on where to start, but you aren’t.

So if your heart is set on getting a sex toy as a gift, here are a few of our favorite playthings to start with.

~*For All Bodies*~

1. For the person who wants to experience a little of everything: Lovehoney Mega Weekend Kit

This kit may be marketed as a couples’ fun box for a 48-hour romp through sextoylandia, but the versatility and breadth of the toys included make it a really easy, safe, gift, regardless of your intended’s genitalia or relationship status. There are a ton of vibrators including a Rabbit vibe, many a butt toy, and several different cock rings. Think of this set as a true Sex Toy 101 in a Box experience. If they love the Rabbit, but want something stronger, now they know they’re into Rabbit vibes specifically and can go on the journey to finding rechargeable, stronger, Rabbit vibes to invest in before taking a wild jump.

2. For the person curious about butt stuff: B-Vibe Anal Education Set

Butt toys are often seen as one of the most versatile sex toys you can buy for a very good reason: everyone has an anus. If the person you’re shopping for has expressed an interest in butt stuff but doesn’t really know where to start, this kit makes anal exploration as comfy, low-stakes, and educationally sexy as possible. This kit includes a lube shooter, small beginner plug, medium vibrating plug, and weighted larger plug so they can have everything they need in one handy kit. There’s also a zippered travel pouch and anal education booklet to help get things started. If you wanna be really fancy, pair with a special anal lube (who doesn’t love the opportunity to wrap two separate things for fun and extra gift-giving zuzh?).

3. For the person who wants a versatile sex toy they can use solo or with a partner: Enby

The purposefully gender-neutral Enby is perfectly designed to be pleasurable for all bodies. The splashproof vibrator has three speeds and five patterns, is super quiet according to reviewers. The versatile design is flexible so it can be used as a blowjob sleeve, external partner vibrator during penetration, or strap-on vibrator. You can also just use it as a clitoral vibrator, or even lay it down on a surface and hump it for a hands-free experience.

~*For Vulva-Havers*~

1. For the person in a LDR: LoveLife Fuse

It’s hard to go wrong with the classics when gift-giving, and Rabbit toys are no exception. The Lovelife Fuse is USB rechargeable and can be controlled via LoveLife’s app, meaning less fumble for the person using it — and the option of having a partner control it from anywhere in the world. Perfect for anyone in a long-distance relationship.

2. For the person who appreciates luxury

For the bougie vulva-haver in your life, the new Soraya Wave is not only peak luxury, it’s also an amazing entry into the world of $$-but-worth-it sex toys. The Soraya Wave is sculpted with an easy-to-hold handle and features an internal shaft that moves up and down, stimulating a lover’s fingers. If your gift receiver already has and loves Lelo’s Ina Wave (with the same “wave” technology), the Soraya is the souped up, fancier version.

3. For the person who wants something discreet

Whether you’re buying for someone who wants to wear their sex toy on their neck or prefers the other end of the spectrum and just wants something that no one will be able to tell is a sex toy, the Crave Vesper is the OG of vibrator necklaces. Available in three colorways, gold, rose gold, and silver and starting at $70, you can go for functionality or splurge for the priciest one and make it a bougie gift too. The rechargeable Vesper is pencil thin (maybe even thinner than a pencil, honestly), and surprisingly strong given its small size.

4. For the person who appreciates a bargain

If you wanna gift something that leaves the door open for more sex toy buying in the future, the WeVibe Romp Free is a great starter. It’s $45, which is v. affordable given the fact that it’s got the same suction technology as much pricier vibes, small enough to stash anywhere, and includes a travel cover so your giftee can have peace of mind that it’s not getting dusty.

5. For the person who wants a pretty toy

This gorgeous, limited-edition, Le Wand features tons of adorable sketches by illustrator and queer community organizer, Wednesday Holmes, tattoo sticker sheets, a keychain, two patches, and four postcards, and a travel case. Plus, the box is almost too pretty to wrap? The extras are so exciting, it’s almost easy to forget that the toy itself is also one of the most powerful wands, rechargeable, cordless, and has ten speeds and 20 patterns. Considering the regular, non-Wednesday Holmes edition Le Wands are also around the same price, the bonuses and cute design of this toy make it a STEAL.

6. For the person who looooves oral sex.

Look, we get it: Sometimes your tongue may get tired, or your neck will experience some aches and pains when she’s getting close. Use this oral-sex simulator as your little sidekick to push her over the edge during oral. You won’t regret it.

7. For the person who needs some sexual stress relief ASAP.

Don’t forget: An orgasm is always the preferred way to feel zen after a stressful week. But why not take it one step further and and give them a thorough, much-needed back massage first? Letting her vent about her boss as you knead her shoulders is highly-underrated foreplay.

8. For the person who never orgasms from penetrative stuff.

They’re not alone. Lots of people need a lil help on their clitoris to reach their full-potential orgasm. Buy them one of these incredible clitoral vibrators that will do oh-so-many favors on her clitoris. Bonus points if you bust it out before they even have time to fumble over to their bedside table drawer for a different toy.

9. For the person who hates being on top.

Woman-on-top sex can be tougher to pair a standard vibrator with compared to, say, doggy-style. So a couple’s vibe might help shrink that orgasm gap. Alternatively, you can also just go down on them for like, an hour. (Hint: This is secretly all anyone wants!)

10. For the adventurous person who would have sex while parasailing if they could.

Buy inspo cards for sex positions in every room of your house. Kitchen table? Sure. Bathroom floor? Why not? Oh, because no one’s cleaned it in two weeks and it’s disgusting? Good point. Kitchen table it is.

11. For the shy partner who struggles to tell you what they really want.

Sometimes, show is so much more powerful than tell, so let her tie you up and blindfold you. This way they have all the power to do whatever it is they secretly dream of doing in bed. Beware, this can often turn partners into people who enjoy having sex with you so much they’ll want to do it all the time. I know, I’m sorry, there’s nothing I can do to stop that.

12. For the partner who can only orgasm in doggy-style, even though it sometimes gets boring for you.

If you want to low-key change things up a tiny bit, you can always use a Liberator wedge or stack of pillows to try out some new angles. Encourage her to lie down instead of staying on her knees, which will make you feel even bigger to her.

~*For Penis-Havers*~

1. For the person who always has the latest gadgets: Lelo F1s Developer Kit

For a gift that’s equal parts tech and sex, the Lelo F1s Developer Kit is hard to beat. It’s one of Lelo’s bestsellers and it’s easy to understand why. The silicone blowjob sleeve has ten separate sensors, two powerful motors, and a window in the casing so you can watching what’s happening while the machine works its magic. There’s easy one-handed controls for maximum feel-good and minimal fumble and you can also download the app to control it. The Developers Kit also comes with a program so you can custom code your own patterns and rhythms — and there are even fingerless gloves and a cheeky “Do Not Disturb — Experiment in Process” door sign to feel like the hacker you are.

2. For the shy partner who you have a feeling might be a Christian Grey 2.0.

Shy people sometimes have a hard time saying what they really want because they don’t want to scare you. If you’re into BDSM play, and you have the slightest inkling they may be too, try these handcuffs as a way to introduce bondage-play into your sex life. Use them on yourself first, then switch and see if your partner has any ounce of submissiveness, themselves

3. For the person who enjoys the finer things in life.

And by finer things in life, we mean you, dressed up in sexy lingerie, in their bed. Surprise your boo by putting on this lil set and giving them a lap dance so epic, they won’t be able to close their mouth from drooling. A gift for both of you, indeed.

4. For your ass-obsessed partner who can’t stop touching your booty.

Buy him a little leather flogger they can spank you with while you do it doggy-style. It’s lightweight enough that it’s not as intense as a paddle, and honestly, they’ll just be so hyped to get to spend up close and personal time with your real-time butt-filled music video that the flogger is just icing on the booty cake.

5. For your boob-obsessed partner who would touch them nonstop if you were cool with it.

Get on top and encourage them to play with your nipples. Then, pull out these sexy AF nipple clamps. Their eyes will light up like they just saw a Christmas tree made entirely of boobs.

6. For your partner who just casually mentioned they might like to try butt play at some point.

If they’ve subtly hinted that he’d be into doing some butt stuff with you, get a butt plug. Butt plugs are great for all bodies, as everyone has a butt, so if your partner wants something in their butt, put something in there! And if they want to have sex in your butt, and you’re not sure about that yet, try a butt plug and see how that feels. Honestly, you both should try this anyway just to say you did. ‘Tis the season for butt play, as all the carols say.

7. For your partner who *loves* BJs (but, like, you secretly hate them).

Pro tip: Dicks don’t taste good, but this flavored lubricant does. Choose from an assortment of lube flavors (like strawberry, peppermint, watermelon, and more) to make oral sex more pleasurable for both of you. You’re welc.

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